Ever been in one of these situations?
So, you have this Manager you work with. Seems that every time you have to interact with them, it becomes a painful ordeal. See, they are the Political type. You know, the type that destroys the creativity of organizations.
When you deal with them, all of a sudden your world is in Black and white... Not color. It's a 6th Sense moment. "I see Stupid People. And they don't even know they're stupid!".
You ask a technical question and get the trout look. You know - Fresh off the plate! This person no more understands what the F you're talking about than the man in the moon. Nor do they want to understand. They have tuned you out. In an effort to shut you up, they proceed up the food chain to suck up to every manager in an attempt to put more red tape and BS in front of you.
Well, you figure that because you are obviously not getting your technical points across, you do memos and white papers explaining the technical challenges. Then, you're too condescending and academic.
You do requirements and everything becomes a new negotiation. You can get nothing done. To this person, it doesn't matter if you have valid requirements or not. What matters most is their own personal interest and growing their own empire.
Its Managers like this that hold back Corporations. They kill productivity and teamwork and they can single-handedly poison your Development and integration teams. They have no idea the destruction they cause. The negative effects they have on folks. The creativity they squash.
They foster Analysis Paralysis, lack of evolution and the tragic killing of products and solutions. These types of folks tend to latch on to products or functions and never release control. Such that it kills functionality and the evolution beyond the basic. Everything is about the bare minimums as you don't have to work at it much. You can float, do what you can, and go on. So what if you never ever deliver new capabilities UNLESS it is POLITICALLY ADVANCING to do so.
How do you save someone like this from themselves? They refuse to listen. They are already Lunar Lander personalities - "Tranquility Base here! The EGO has landed!". They don't even have an inkling of what they don't know or understand. Yet they continue to drive out innovation.
As a Manager of one of these personality types, it becomes dangerous for you. You either subscribe to the lineage of politics or they start politically going around you. So the deceit, lies, and ignorance perpetuates. And the company continues to suffer. It takes strong leadership to either control the politics or make a decision to oust the impediments to progress. Both take intestinal fortitude, leadership, and a lot of paperwork.
In summary, I wish I could reach these folks. Have them understand the creativity and peoples careers they kill. All in the name of self preservation. Have them understand that a little common sense would open their whole world.
In my career, I have been in this situation 4-5 times. A Situation where the only way to be successful is to compromise your principals and ethics and start sucking up. My heart goes out to my friends that endure the torture of mindless decisions , the lack of experience and unwillingness to understand, and the unending political positioning and rambling rather than doing the right thing.
I'm soo elated to be away from this. Words cannot do justice to how elated and ecstatic I am to be able from the mindlessness.